所谓的五五分学~

所谓的五五分学呢其实很简单，它呢是一个简单方程式给各位正在交往的朋友们，特别是那些彼此多还没学会怎样赚钱，没有赚钱能力的朋友，或是还在伸手向父母要钱的朋友。所以如果当你没有经济能力又在谈恋爱时，五五分学就派上用场!

放眼望去，如果做个问卷调查不难发现十对情侣，有九对用餐，看电影或购买些用品时，大多数是男方付钱，结账至于女方呢，当然就一脸理所当然让男方付钱的态度，就静静的呆在旁边任由男方付钱。现今的社会里，如果男生已经出社会开始工作，赚钱，那么买单理所当然，但是如果男生还只是个学生，没有赚钱的能力，那么就已经没有所谓的男生必须付钱的道理了！

如果男生没有经济能力，向父母伸手拿现钱，如果男生来自富裕的家庭那当然不是一个问题，但是如果男生来自小康之家，那么她父母要养的不只是他们的孩子还有孩子的女朋友，久而久之，对他们来说何尝不是一种负担呢？也许一餐饭，一场电影贵不到哪儿，但是别忘了，如果餐餐饭，常常看电影，那就会是一笔庞大的数目啊！

所以，女生就应该表现得体贴些，如果知道自己的男友没有经济能力，就别秉持着一定要男友请我的态度，多替男生想想，毕竟要维持一段感情不是那么容易的，也许到最后会分手就是因为男方已经没有能力灾情女方吃饭，看电影，而不是男方已经不爱她了！何必呢？一段好好的姻缘就因为女生的不会自动而落幕。

所谓的五五分学就是，如果男方没有经济能力，彼此可以各付各的，不然女生心里必须要有一个算盘，一把尺，如果男生已经请你大概三餐或五餐，那么是时候回敬你男友一餐或两餐。这是一个多么简单又容易的事，别小看这一餐两餐因为久而久之，它也会减少你男友的开销。看了几场男生请的电影，是时候请回男生看场电影。除了用餐，看电影，其他琐碎的事情，只要用到钱，开销较大，像是去旅行，住旅馆，入门票等，绝不可由一个连自己都还没有本事养活自己的男生包办，全由他支付，这样岂不是会苦了他为了你们俩的旅行，为了让你有个快乐，浪漫的旅行到处筹钱，省钱,一个人要支付两个人的费用，对一个没有经济能力的他来说是个不易的事啊！

这是五五分学就派得上用场，用用五五分学，也许不必付完全部费用，就算是一部分的费用也好，毕竟对你男友来说，就已经算是帮了他一个大忙，这样男友才不会为了请你，勒紧腰带过日子，为你牺牲。既然男友都可以为你牺牲，何不为他想想。如果你懂得站在男友的立场，替他想想，那么在男友眼里也会觉得你是个多么懂得体贴他的好女生。既然在他心里是加分的，何乐而不为呢？为他多想，换来的是幸福美满，多么值得！

所以，男生们！如果没有经济能力，就抛开你们所谓的大男人主义，别以为是男生就因该请女生，如果有一个懂得为你着想的女友不是很甜蜜吗？别为了所谓的面子，自尊，到最后变成悲剧，只好以分手收场，不是更划不来？毕竟也许你们还是相爱的，别为了老古板的想法而让你们多添遗憾啊！

* 把五五分学学起来，在适当的时候用上他，我保证百利而无一害，毕竟可以让你变得更体贴，更若人爱，何乐而不为呢？~

copyright- chl 28/12/2010

男孩~放手吧！

今晚当聚会结束时，小哲的朋友忽然问小哲一对情侣如果其中一方付出的比另一方付出的较多时，当他们分手时，付出较多的那一方不会不甘愿吗？在小哲看来,当任何一方开始计较有谁付出较多，付出较少时，那着一段感情注定悲剧收场。当一认真地爱上一个认时，你只会一心一意地为对方付出，不求任何回报的复出，不会计较谁爱谁比较多，那这段感情便可维持下去。也许不是每个人都能不求回报的付出，但如果你真地爱上一个人的时候，相信我在那一刻，你会不顾一切为对方作任何事情。

如果当你为对方不顾一切的付出换来的是背叛，换来的是伤害，也许就会不甘愿自己付出这么多的感情换来的是这样的结局。就开始秉持着既然自己被伤害到这样，也绝对不会让多方有好日子过的宗旨，开始一连串的报复行为，对对方进行一连串的骚扰，让对方不得安宁，苦苦的纠缠对方，把场面弄得大家都尴尬。我相信，如果对感情付出较多的那一方，在分手时。一定会有些许想要报复的心态，毕竟自己这么痛苦，被伤害到这么深，如果对方还能若无其事的过日子，那对被伤害的人来说更是一件伤口撒盐的事啊!

但如果仔细冷静下来认真想想，分手何尝不是一件好事呢？这样你就不会越陷越深，所受的伤伤害也不会越来越重。既然对方对你已经没有任何牵挂，你又何苦表现得如果没有对方你就会活不下去那么窝囊呢？既然分手了，就要振作！不管被伤地优多重，也多要站起来，要活得比对方更精彩，决不能自暴自弃，更需要感谢对方让你上了宝贵的一课，让你能越挫越勇。如果下个爱人比对方更好时，你更应该庆幸如果不是多方的狠心，你绝对不会遇到一个比他更爱你的人，所以如果真的分手了，就大家好聚好散，不要撕破脸，那么至少还可以做回朋友，下次见面也不会那么尴尬。如果真的受伤了，那么就好好的疗伤，静静的，短暂的享受一人的生活的美好，毕竟下一个也许会更好！

*如果爱对方，就让他走吧！就算苦苦纠缠到最后只会让彼此难堪，也许你真的深深的付出过，换来的是对方的一句分手吧，想想那些相爱却不能再一起的人，想想那些单恋的人，想想那些暗恋的人，毕竟你们彼此曾经拥有过其他人没有的甜蜜与美好！

男孩对自己有点信心吧！

今天小哲的朋友-A君带着他的朋友来到某个城市,小哲便和他们相约一块用餐。当小哲踏入餐厅时，发现A君的朋友当中很明显有一对情侣。刚开始的时候，他们两人就像没事一样，聊着天，手也没牵着手，当小哲的其他友人到齐时，大家便开始用餐，可是小哲开始发现那个男生开始时不时的牵着女生的手，开始表现得很亲密。也许是因为小哲的朋友大多数都是男生，有的长相也不错，所以那位男生才开始紧张，想要宣示主权，用亲密的表现来告诉大家证明给其他人看说他身边这位女的已经名花有住了。小哲觉得也许这位男孩这么做事对自己没有什么信心吧！

往往当一对情侣正在交往的时候，如果女方的条件属于不错的级别时，男方就会开始对自己没有信心，每每有其他男生靠近自己的女伴时，就武装戒备，以防其他男生有机可趁。其实说真的，男方没有必要对自己这么没有信心，女方之所以会选你必有她的原因，也许是你的才干吸引了她，也许是你的某个角度让他觉得你很有魅力，也许你有些过人之处，所以男生没有必要时时武装戒备，因为这样也许又让人产生距离感，久而久之，就连自己的拜把兄弟都可能因为你的戒心太过强大而疏远你，就连最基本的信任也没有，还做什么兄弟？

有些女生也许会觉得她们好幸福有一个这么保护她们的男生，但是久而久之，这也许就是所谓的导火线，女生也会对那些没有信心的男生觉得反感。因为通常只要男生没有信心，男生就会开始限制对方的行动，也许有些时候不是因为没有信心而限制对方，也许是真心为对方好，但么有信心的男生就连女友和谁出去也不行，做这不行，做那不行。日子久了，女生也会觉得烦，到最后提出分手不是因为她不再爱你而是因为你所谓的为她好让她无法喘气，让她感觉自己像犯人一样，每天被审问。

所以，男孩们对自己有点信心！该给的自由还是必须给的，如果女友就因为这样容易被身边的兄弟，朋友，某生人把走，试问一下这女的还值得你为她付出？在小哲看来，这样的女生只会无止境的伤害你，倒不如分了一了百了来得更好。仔细想想这个问题吧！

*爱情不是靠束缚对方来维持的，爱情是靠彼此的信任来完成的*！
copied right by chl 26/10/2010

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it has been such a long time i din write blog~~all of sudden i miss the feeling of blogging~~plan to do lots of things in my blog..end up did nothing because i m too lazy to do tat~~...haha...so i will try my best to do wat i wan in my blog~hope u guys will enjoy...

learning japanese...its not piece of cake...it is a hard deal for me..haiseh~no matter how i will still tried my best~~..n mooting 1 as well...drop my gpa..but thx god all my paper passed..i will work more harder this sem~

the sorcerer's apprentice~

watched "the sorcerer's apprentice"..basically the whole story is about how the teenager in 2010 had been choose as Prime Merlinian in order to defeat morgana. she has been trapped inside a doll end up release by maxim..this movie involve magics and love..how dave meet up with becky after he leave the city and how both of them fall in love~besides that..nicholas cage another oscar winner play a role as balthazar blake who is the master for dave to turn him into prime merlinian. Nicholas cage himself fall in love with his own master disciple veronica and veronica sacrifite herself to trap morgana in the doll..therefore..when maxim release morgana out..veronica was release as well..

^ Rating for this movie--4.0/5

Date Night~

another movie i watched in the second day of my one week holidays~

seriously~date night is awesome and funnY~who will ever know that just a simple date as usual will bring out lots of question marks on the actor and actress themselevs~..

both of the couple are getting bored and bored on their entire life even though having date every week once or twice..as usual both of the couple are going for a date but this time..both of them wanna try somethings different from past..they decided to have their meal in a restaurant at Manhattan in the city~.both of them thinking of reaching earlier so that they can grab some empty place but they fail to do so..they have to wait at the bar corner for empty seat..when the waitress calling for a couple for a moment and getting no respond~..steve carell and tina fey pretended that they are the particular couple and the story begin~

both of them getting threaten by some men who are working for the district attorney  in order to get back their pendrive~but both of them have no ideals about everything the men asking for~so..they have to use their knowledge and depends on themselves to get away from this disaster as soon as possible~

during the time they run off..trying to escape from the terrible men..both of them disposing their dissatisfaction among each others..and both of them getting more and more understand as their usual behavior had caused troubles for their partner..

by watching this movie..not only husband and wife shall communicate from time to time but as well as the sweet young couple..its impossible for you guys to sweet forever..one day..you guys will face the obstacle and both of you need to solve it together by not leaving your partner alone to suffer from it..you two should come out with a solution..its some sort a prove of love..showing that you would suffer with him or her to look for a correct solutions..xD..

^Rating for this movie--4.1/5

what woman want..xD

what woman want~..its a 2000 movie~and its a movie 10 years ago from now=D..old right~haha..the story is basically decribing most of men who have no ideals what woman want actually~is money they want?o perhaps sex??..but for me~ a woman need love=)a true love she is hoping for~~

mel gibson another oscar winner~..in this movie..he can be consider as a man who is full of failure~the ex wife marry with another man..n the daughter regardless him as her father..n he taught that he will be promoted to the creativity director but sad case..he did nt get promoted but he boss hire another lady to become his supervisor=)~

helen hunt ocsar winner as well~the new director knowing that there will be a 400 billions market from the women..and trying her best to achieve tat target~..while mel gibson is trying on the products given by helen~he accidentally fall inside the bath tab and get a electric shock and when he wake up~he can hear what woman mumbling inside their heart~..nt reading their mind..

if everyone of u having the same skill..will u all be happy about the skill??a woman maybe praising you from her mouth but who know she might be scolding you in her heart=)so guys~..watch it!..its a nice movie=)and i think that sooner or later another version of what woman want will be release..leading by liu de hua and gong li as it is a whole new version in chinese~

^Rating for this movie--3.8/5^

thumb up for inception~

i have been impressed by Leonardo Dicaprio since the very 1st u knw him from the legendary movie~- Titanic=D

and now..after i think around 10 years..i impressed by him again in the movie knw as inception~..inception is a movie regardless about any love or romance..its a movie with regards with dreams=)..dreams inside dreams..getting deeper n deeper in our dreams..n we can hardly differentiate which is the reality at the end of the movie..

for me~the movie is awesome is due to writer of the movie..its a whole new ideals that we can hardly found it in the previous movie..its a movie totally saying about the dreams..n how can we incept someone dreams..n then u get have any information in the person brain but provided that such person is nt train to defend it when u enter his/her dreams~if nt it will end up like the story in the movie=)..leonardo almost fail to extract the information he wan from fiesher as fiesher is trained to defend his dreams~

besides that..although such movie regardless love and romance..but it slightly insert some of the memory between leonardo and marion cotillard(Oscar best actress) who is his own wife..he incpeted his own wife and caused her unable to differentiate the reality and dreams and end up by suicide.

                                                     the actors and actress in the movie~

Dream~we can have anythings we want in our dreams~anythings which is impossible to own by us in the reality~we can have lots of money in our dreams..lost of luxurious items in the dreams..but..no matter what..we will still wake up from the dreams..thus~we can enjoy our dreams but not addicted to it end up cant differentiate between reality and dreams~

心情日记~

夜已深..虽然有些累但又不甘这么早睡..也许是习惯了熬夜..早睡反而觉得怪怪的..好久好久都没写小说了..想些但是写了有人会看吗？难道不想被认可吗？毕竟写小说也不是件容易的事情~需要的是幻想~是灵感~但毕竟可以把现实中不可能发生的事情融入小说里~毕竟写了看了心里舒服~想想中学的时候写了不少~还被刊登在苍穹下-华文学会出版的月刊~..也被友人所欣赏~总算辛苦没有白费~想想也是时候练一炼~开始写小说吧~希望大家会喜欢^..虽说是小说~但总会融入一些不可能发生在自己身上的事主角来完成~把自己想要得寄托在他或她的身上~

除了小说~也好久没写些关于爱情的东西~自己的看法~每每写完小说总会在小说下给大家前浅薄的意见~个人的观点与看法~希望大家不要介意~看看参考参考也没关系~有谁会知道可能某些巨资会对你带来无限的启发呢~

sex and the city 2=)

its a nice movie=)u guys shud watch it~tat day forgot to upload some of the pictures~uploading now^

some of the postal~

look so temptating izit?~Miley cyrus and Penolepe cruz play a small role inside the movie as well^^

halo~

Hi everyone~it has been such a long time i din update my stuff in the blog~i just finished my holiday and successfully completed year one in degree~moving towards 2nd year degree curently~thx god for blessing me for letting me pass all the subject in 1st year~

Its the 3rd week for the sem one year two~i spent a lots of money in buying my textbook~thx to my senior for selling their textbook to me in a much more cheaper price~

I watch sex and the city 2 last week~it was amazing~i just realise that middle east can be so attractive to me..since i m watching in the cinema~tat means most of the sex scene has been cut=)..tats y i feel like watching 'the city' without sex~but its still awesome to me..>.<..all the lastest fashion they all wearing n the bags they all hanging~all are so marvellous~i can only envy on it=)no chance in using all stuff~~i strongly recommanded all of u to watch tat movie~its really temptating~besides tat~the movie has show all the classy stuff such as the hotel in Abu Dhabi was fantastic~all the 4 ladies were having their own helpers or perhaps the housekeepers..sigh..hoping tat i will get such treatment as well=)oh well~its just dreams~
so everyone~enjoy ur sex and the city 2=)i give 5 stars for it~really nice=)

trip to parliament~

wake up at 5.50 am in the morning~n reach parliament around 10.30 am..
there r only two toilets parliament for the guests to use it=)..we waited for such a long time to use the toilet..haiz...is tat wat u call a parliament??..>.<...r there the place which represent everyone of us??..

after tat we entered into the parliament to watch the dramatic debate=)saw a lots of YB such as lim kit xiang..rafidah..tan lian hua..teresa kok..feng bao jun..ong tee kiat..zhou mei fen..wei jia xiang..hishanmudin..mi ke han..yu de hua..azalina..anuar daughter~zhang ying..haha...n so on~when the debate is goin to enter into the climate..when the YB zhang ying is questioning the minister..we had to leave..>.<..its such a pity as we guess tat somethings interesting will be happening soon~perhaps the members of parliament dun wish use to watch them quarrelling instead of debating~so we r ask to leave^

we walk a along long journy to reach the bus from parliament~n i had shushi king as my lunch instead of california pizza becoz there is no empty spaces for us~walk around the klcc n i bought one shirt n one pant from philosophy men^

when we r leaving, once we step into the bus..wat we feel is the hot air inside it is becoz the aircorn is nt functioning...it is lik the sauna o n oven..all of us nearly get cooked..we asking to open the emergency window top there at least we let the air flow..but the driver refuse to do so..at the end..all of us stop at the road side to take some oxygen~outside is totally cooler..

the driver after tat say that he nid to recharge the engine o battery so the bus must move so tat it can recharge..as we hav no choice but to sit back..the aircorn still a bit functioning..a bit nt functioning...at the end thx god~it works..haha~

it is a wonderful day beside the bus aircorn stuff=D

越光宝盒

昨晚去看了这部最新的电影~里头有好多熟悉的面孔~像好久没有演戏的朱茵~蔡少芬（铁扇公主）~还有一出现就会让大家笑翻的吴君如，曾志伟等巨星~整部戏呢，笑点是蛮多的，像鸟巢，包租婆，铁达尼号等经典影片的桥段也都被导演融入这部戏里~虽然这部戏有笑点，没重点~但是光听戏院里笑声此起彼落~就知道这部戏还是有她的卖点的~大家如有空不妨也卖票进去看看~笑笑没烦恼=D

Bonjour~

Raining day~
this is the 1st day i start blogging~hurray~finally i have my own blog~i m a blogger as well~from now onwards~i will share everythings n my opinions in here~this is my kitchen~i will cook all the delicious n finger licking dishes n serve to everyone~

Bonne Appetie^^